Stripping away the rose colored glasses of denial concerning my reality. Getting in touch with truth. Reaching out to others in empathy concerning their reality and their walk to truth.

Monday, March 19, 2012

Love is in the air; cough, cough, hack, haaa

At some point you will realize that you have done too much for someone, that the only next possible step to do is to stop. Leave them alone. Walk away. It’s not like you’re giving up, and shouldn’t try. It’s just that you have to draw the line of determination from desperation. What is truly yours would eventually be yours, and what is not, no matter how hard you try, will never be.

"Frankly, my dear, the allergies are killing me."


  1. Dear Dixie,
    When I was going out with a certain person many moons ago, she used to have a poster that said, "if you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was." I suppose it's similar to what you're saying here, and your post reminded me of it.
    Anyway, try to avoid the allergies!
    Very Best Wishes,

  2. Hi Dixie. David has pre-empted what I was going to say (but he said it more eloquently). If your have read 'The Road Less Travelled' you will have seen a similar sentiment expressed.
    It's that most unusual object - a useful self-help book!
    Click here for Bazza’s Blog ‘To Discover Ice’

  3. Dear David,
    The version I heard said, "...if it doesn't come back to you, hunt it down and kill it." Ah, ha, ha.

    I must be finally maturing, Dave.

    "And~ stop with many moons before sunrise!" (F-Troop Chief, Big Waumpon)

  4. Bazza?
    Did I actually use someone else's quote, thinking it was an old writing of mine? How embarrassing!

    Never have read the book, and my Mom would have chided me for that omission! Had a book in her face all the time.

    Sure thing, Bazza; I need help if only with the self!!!

  5. Oh my, "What do you get when you kiss a guy?
    You get enough germs to catch pneumonia
    After you do, he'll never phone ya
    I'll never fall in love again
    Dontcha know that I'll never fall in love again?"
    I do hope you have a peaceful weekend, Dixie.
    Kind wishes, Gary

  6. Gary,
    I like being germ free too!
    Thank you,


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